According to statistics 40% of people will cheat if they knew that they would not get caught. That is a big percentage, what about commitment its as if it is tossed out the window like old trash. We are human, there are times that everyone imagines or dreams of sleeping with someone else, but not all dreams become reality. Wanting too much eventually has it’s consequences, money and sex are culprits of our society.
If you want to have an affair does that make you a bad person? Actually yes and no, thinking about it and doing it is just about the same. Thinking of it is just imagination, but can get stuck in your head and though there’s nothing physical about it, still it can lead down the wrong road. Participating in the action is just as worse and well you know what that can lead to.
It amazes me that even though people know the signs of cheating they tend to ignore it. The cheater knows right from wrong but the temptation and the adventure is something that must be tasted and in some cases cheating on your spouse is justifiable. Of course it’s obvious what the signs of a cheating spouse are;
Coming home late
Setting up profiles on dating websites
Short phone conversations when you call
Usual credit card charges
Different attitude towards you
Takes too long to answer the phone
Smell of a woman’s perfume and so and so on
The reasons people cheat can be a endless list of causes. Maybe they strayed because of weight gain, finance problems, grown tired of their significant other, neglect, mental and physical abuse, lack of attention and etc. Some even go as far as trying to bring their other lover into the relationship thinking that it might improve it.
Chasing infidelity is like an adrenalin rush, though it is incorrect it is fun and very exciting! Millions of people are having an affair right now, they are either meeting somewhere in a hotel room, bar, club or even have created a profile on one of those cheating dating websites such as AshleyMadison.com. If you can believe it people are creating profiles at this dating service every single day! You can sign up to cheat, that is crazy!
Ashley Madison is the only online dating service that I know that has been featured on talk shows such as The Tyra Banks Show and has been broadcast on Fox Chicago News. The owner of the website business is making millions of dollars on infidelity. Many don’t agree with his principles as a business owner of this website, but hey what can you do.
Instead of figuring out the problem of the relationship some just go out and find someone to listen to them and to take care of their sexual tendencies. Having great sex will keep your partner happy, but can it ever be enough to prevent them from sliding between the sheets with someone other than you? Most want better sex, someone with a better body or others just don’t care. They want to touch and be touched by a new smell, a new smile and a new bond. Boredom is another reason too.
I think the reason why some of us chase infidelity is because there is something missing, there’s some type of void that needs to be filled. Falling into the arms of another has its intensity and takes you away from your old world. Fulfill your fantasies with your spouse, try out some adult games and products, be more open with sexuality.
Cheating can lead to a sex addiction, men and women get excited by variety. The thrill is pretty strong and difficult to suppress. Being involved with multiple partners is like playing Russian roulette with sexually transmitted diseases and you can bring it home to your wife or your husband. Instead of chasing a thrill try chasing a solution. And once you find that solution will it be a permanent one? Unfortunately cheating is inevitable.