As long children in the family are doing schooling there will not be any problem in any family. When the children are becoming adult children, there would be misunderstanding with parent or parents, the girl child would be interested in doing a course, the mother and father may not be interested to send her to that particular studies, similarly, the boy would be interested to shine in the sports, he would be practicing heavily for the baseball game, parents would be interested to make him a doctor and serve the society. All these mental agonies in the family would be making the family to stay without peace; there would be harsh conversation in between the children and with the parents. The parents are right on their way, the children are right on their way, now to total compromise is required to the family. Now, if the above family is attending the family counseling services, the counselors speak to each member of the family separately and the counselors would be calling all the family members at the final stage in the counseling then the family would be able to manage the life with peace. The reason is the counselors are experts, they faced many cases as above, now the counselors are informing the boy study medical as suggested by the parents, now the counselors would be informing the parents,family counseling services there would not be any problem even if the boy is shining in the baseball game, a person could do multiple activities with more perfection, now the parents are compromised.
The Child counselor for the girl would be offering many courses, the girl would be eager to know all the courses available to study, now she would be changing her mind to take a course which would be useful for her future life, now the parents would be glad about her decision in attending a course. This way, the help of the counselor is making the family to stay join together without any misunderstanding, the mean time, parent would be provided separate counseling to handle the adult children in the family. The children and the parent of the family would be very glad for attending the counseling because entire Child counselor misunderstanding is cleared just in counseling, the medicine is provided only for the person who is very deep in thinking about a single subject. Anyone thinking very deep about a problem becomes mental based illness; the above problems are very simple to cure by the doctors. All families should have to understand this well.