When your ex boyfriend suddenly broke up with you, he might have been using a psychological trick on you. Catching you by surprise is a way of stunning you and getting away without an argument. By doing this he will save any hard feelings and you will wonder what you did to offend him. He will have a reason for doing this that you might not have thought of.
What he won’t realize is, you can use psychological tricks too. This has nothing to do with casting spells or using a magic potion. It is simply using the way another thinks to make them act the way you want them to act. If you use this tactic in the right way, you can make your ex think he cannot live without you.
When your ex broke up with you, he didn’t want it to be final. He intended to make you hang around and wait for him. That would make you a safety net or backup girlfriend. He intends to call you occasionally and chat. That will keep up your hopes of getting him back. In the meantime, your ex boyfriend intends to go out and have a good time.
He plans on dating some women and if things don’t work out, he will have you in waiting as a backup girlfriend. This is not a very good setup for you and you don’t need to accept it. You can use your own psychological tricks to make him think he can’t live without you. Start by disappearing. Go on a trip somewhere and while you are gone, find a good salon and get a new hair style, manicure and a tan
Then go shopping for some hot new clothes that will accent your new look. When you get back, show your ex that you are not sitting around waiting for him. Go out with your friends and stop by the place your ex boyfriend hangs out. He will have been wondering why you were not taking his calls. Seeing you looking so great and having fun will give him the answer. You don’t intend to be his backup girlfriend.
Give your him a big smile, but don’t let him get close enough for conversation. Just let him get a good look at you and leave. Your ex will not know what hit him. He will be stunned and confused. Suddenly he will realize that he does not need to date other women. What he needs to do is find a way to get you back.
Your ex boyfriend will start trying to contact you. Don’t take his phone calls or answer his emails and text messages. Using these psychological tricks will make him see how foolish he has been and that he can’t live without you.